First Gay experience

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Published February 20, 2013 by Gay Free Fun


Gay Dad and his familyHere’s the situation I’ve recently just came out of the closet. I announced to my family and friends that I was making a change in my life and was finally accepting myself as I truly was; a full on gay man. Funny enough, against all my fears they were all so very supportive. Thing is, I have no gay friends and I live in a tiny town where everyone knows who you are or what you do. No gay bars, gay clubs, gay socialites or anything to do with gay interests, just plain old boring people with normal lives living in a normal quiet town.

Of course I’ve contemplated leaving for another city but I love my life here. I’ve got an amazing job I love and now super supportive family and friends. Why would I ever want to leave? What’s missing is gay companionship. You know…someone to talk to and laugh with. I’ve been single for a while now and now that I’ve assumed my way of life, I’m in desperate need of human contact. A friend of mine suggested I check out websites who specialize in gay chatting. I’m not much of a computer guy so I was wondering where I should be going for this type of chatting. Of course this world is all new to me and I would love to discuss this way of life with other guys who have chosen the same lifestyle I have.


Discouraged gay guy I started by getting a webcam, a good one with HD video. Then the searching began. I scoured the internet looking for the perfect place to chat. I went to Omegle where I was told was loaded with people. Loaded yes…gay no! There were 17 158 strangers online and when I entered that my interests were gay chatting this is what was written: “Omegle couldn’t find anyone who shares interests with you so this stranger is completely random. Try adding more interests.” Well I guess there is no gay chat there. So is there a place for gay chatting? A place where I wouldn’t have to say, “Hey are you gay? Wanna talk about gay stuff?” I’m guessing there are even fewer chances of me finding a Gay sex chat where I can discover the real way of gay sexuality because after all I’m just a beginner.


I’ve really thought about this long and hard and have come to the conclusion that I would rather experiment my sexuality online with other experienced gays than just fuck a randomGay couple in love at the beach gay stranger from out of town. It’s not easy. I am a shy and inexperienced guy and I’m not really sure how to go about it. I’ve seen guys online do this kind of thing and they really seem to enjoy it. I’ve been to a few gay sex chat sites and still have not summed up the courage to turn on my webcam. I’m satisfied with just peeping at the guys who are online and gay chatting. Though I am not yet fulfilling my needs completely, I feel I am learning and I do want to go about this the right way.

I am on my way to a whole new world of wonder and welfare and I feel that for once in my life I can be myself. I want to experiment with gay sex and I really think that I will be able to do that efficiently on gay chatting websites where there is no pressure, just refreshing and sweet fun! Wish me luck and I hope to see you online sometime! Image

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